THE RECLAMATION

1:1 Psycho-Somatic Healing for Leaders, Lovers & Seekers of Wholeness

Leadership | Love | Becoming

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Leadership

Lead from essence, not ego. Break free from trauma-driven success and step into authentic, soul-aligned leadership.

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Love

Release anxious, avoidant, or disorganized patterns and create deeply secure, self-honoring relationships rooted in wholeness.

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Becoming

 Reconnect with your true self, melt survival patterns, and step fully into your power, pleasure, and creative essence.

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Leadership

Collapse the False & Reclaim the True Self.  Lead from Wholeness.

A Private 1:1 Psycho-Somatic Intervention for Leaders, Visionaries & High Achievers

This is not coaching. This is not mindset work. This is not therapy as you know it.

This is a high-level 1:1 container designed for leaders, visionaries, and top performers—those who have built their success on unconscious survival strategies rather than true soul-alignment.

In The Reclamation, we go beyond high-level success.
You’ve built your career, your life, and your leadership around a false self—driven by the need for approval, recognition, and external validation. Success has elevated you, made you feel seen and important, and given you a sense of power and significance.

Even though your external success gives you fleeting moments of dopamine, validation, and the illusion of safety, deep down something feels misaligned. You have all the markers of success but still feel unfulfilled, constantly running after the next thing, never fully satisfied.

You may live in a constant state of urgency, fear of scarcity, and overcompensation. Maybe you’re exhausted, but can’t stop. Your drive keeps pushing you, but it feels like it’s coming at the expense of your well-being.
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You might find yourself caught in addictive cycles—whether it’s work, money, relationships, or substances—as a way to numb, distract, or fill the emptiness.
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These are the symptoms of trauma-driven success: A drive based on wounds and an identity shaped by survival mechanisms.
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This is where we break the cycle.
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When we move from Trauma to Essence, something profound happens:
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We discharge the trauma energy that shaped your drive, performance, and identity. We reintegrate wounded parts that were isolated and frozen in time. Your lifeforce—once consumed by survival mechanisms—becomes available again.
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And from this place, your true self emerges: rooted in self-worth, choice, and power, optimal mental & emotional health, and deep internal stability. Aligned with your true purpose; clarity and direction flow naturally from your inner wisdom, guiding your life and leadership.
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Whether you're a world leader, CEO, visionary artist, or influencer—if your leadership is rooted in trauma (or unresolved internal wounds), your actions and impact will always reflect that misalignment.
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Just take a look at the world around you—whether in politics, business, or the arts—and you’ll see the consequences of leadership shaped by wounds: leaders making decisions from fear, ego, or scarcity, and brilliant artists whose external success mask mental health issues & deep internal suffering.
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The Reclamation offers a different path: This is the Future of Leadership—leading from a healed, integrated self, free from survival-driven success and power struggles, and rooted in genuine influence, clarity, and sovereignty.

This is for you if:

  • You're a high-performer, visionary, artist, or leader—but secretly struggle with mental or emotional health beneath the surface of your success
  • You’ve been celebrated, elevated, admired—but internally, you may feel fragmented, misaligned, or quietly deteriorating.
  • You’ve built a career around recognition, status, or achievement—but it no longer feels fulfilling
  • You experience internal collapse, confusion, or numbness—even while others see you as powerful or inspirational
  • You're constantly being “chosen” for bigger opportunities, but your nervous system contracts, or you feel dread, not joy
  • You deeply crave alignment to your True Self, like a hunger for something you have lost along the way, even though you may not know what that True Self even looks/feels like
  • You want to stop leading from unconscious trauma—and begin leading from clarity, sovereignty, and deep internal stability.
  • You're beginning to see how much of your identity was built for someone else's love, approval, or recognition.

Love

Reclaim your emotional sovereignty.

Heal the attachment wounds that have kept you stuck in insecure patterns of love and connection.

In this pillar, we work directly with the parts of you shaped by early relational trauma—the mother wound, emotional enmeshment, abandonment, or emotional neglect. We explore and unwind patterns of insecure attachment and rewire your capacity to be in connection without self-abandonment, or distrusting and rejecting love / healthy connection.
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You no longer merge, perform, chase, or disappear in order to be loved.
You become safe enough to stay present—to give, receive, and express in wholeness.
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Here, we help you reclaim inner security and build a strong sense of self-worth, so you can feel safe and secure in relationships without losing sense of who you are. Whether you're healing from anxious, avoidant, or disorganized attachment wounds, this work helps you:
  • For anxious attachment: Reclaim self-soothing, emotional regulation, and inner security. Heal the deep-rooted fear of abandonment and identity-based belief of being unworthy of love, so you no longer rely on others to validate your worth.
  • For avoidant attachment: Reclaim the ability to be vulnerable, trust intimacy, and connect emotionally. Heal the belief that needing others makes you weak, distracts you from your ´purpose´, that relationships are a lost cause, that you’re bad at them, or that you’re better off alone. Learn that needing others doesn’t diminish your autonomy—it enriches your experience of life and love. It´s possible to embrace authentic connection without losing your identity, freedom and independence.
  • For disorganized attachment: Reclaim emotional clarity and consistency in your relationships. Discharge trauma from the body, so you can be in relation without consistently fearing the worst. Heal the inner conflict between approach and avoidance, and reclaim the trust needed to feel secure in relationships, free from fear of abandonment, betrayal or rejection.
In the process, we help you create a secure inner world, so that you feel worthy, lovable, and valuable from within. You no longer fear losing a partner, losing yourself (your freedom and autonomy) or feel unworthy of love—your relationships are an extension of that inner confidence and self-respect.
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This work is about shifting from survival-based attachment patterns to secure connection, where your true self can be expressed fully, authentically, and with confidence.

This is for you if:

  • You become anxious, avoidant, or disorganized in love
  • You feel unseen, unmet, or like you always have to earn love
  • You collapse your needs, your voice, or your identity in relationship
  • You long for intimacy—but associate it with danger or self-loss
  • You crave the safety to stay open without betraying yourself

Becoming Self

Reconnection to Essence. Anchoring in Core Self.
From fragmentation to wholeness. From survival to sovereignty.

In this pillar, we guide you through a deep exploration—from the roots of your trauma and the lost, hidden, or rejected parts of yourself, to the reclamation and embodiment of your true Essence.
This work is the ultimate Multi-Dimensional Shadow Integration meets Somatic Trauma Resolution. We face the parts of you that have been silenced, ignored, or buried, and we bring them back home. This is where we move from trauma to essence, where the wounds of the past are healed and the pieces of yourself you thought were lost are reclaimed. Here you move from disconnection and collapse to wholeness, and True Self embodiment.

Trauma work is Soul work, it´s Holy.

This is where you remember what lights you up, what your body loves, what your voice sounds like when it’s not performing.
It’s where the woman, the artist, the sensual being returns. Where Pleasure, Enjoyment and Aliveness flicker back to Life.
Where the freeze begins to melt—and LifeForce starts moving again.

This is also where we heal the patterns of codependence—not just in love, but in how you relate to money, work, success, and visibility.
Where you stop outsourcing your worth to a partner, your safety to money, or your identity to your business. Where you no longer operate from need—but from sovereignty.
This is where your power stops being hidden behind politeness or people pleasing. Where the truth in your belly becomes the voice in the room. This is where your life begins to align with who you actually are.

This is for you if:

  • You’ve recently felt disconnected from your true self, whether due to major life changes (e.g., motherhood, career shifts, or identity loss).
  • You’re stuck, unmotivated, or feeling blocked—as if you’ve lost your drive and don’t know how to reconnect with your passion.
  • You feel like you’ve been operating on survival mode and are now ready to rediscover true fulfillment and inner worth that doesn’t depend on external validation.
  • You want to break free from the old identities (mother, achiever, etc.) that no longer serve you and step into your authentic self—empowered, creative, and emotionally free.
  • You’re ready to heal the trauma that’s kept you from living in alignment with your true desires and start living from a place of wholeness and fulfillment.
  • You avoid life and living. You are isolating, disconnecting. It feels like a lot of effort to participate in life, as if you have to plaster on a personality to connect or be with others.

My Methology

This is not mindset coaching, and it’s not´talk´ therapy. This is a full-system, trauma-rooted methodology designed to transform your internal architecture—psychological, somatic, energetic, ancestral, and spiritual. Below is a glimpse into how we work at every level of your being.

My Signature Approach

A Full System Transformation

Trauma-Focused

We don’t spend years circling the edges. We go straight to the root—your Core Wounds and the Protective Strategies that formed around them. This is deep trauma resolution, not symptom management.

Parts & Aspects Work

We compassionately meet the fragmented parts of you, wounded, occluded or hidden aspects. Through somatic reclamation, we allow them to express and discharge what´s been held in the body and nervous system. A profound healing takes place when we take parts from isolation back into connection, and move them from the Trauma Field to the Generative. During this process, ´lost´ essence is usually reclaimed (innocence, playfullness, power etc), vitality recovered and brain repatterning taking place.

The Seat of Self

This is the place of clarity, presence, and agency. The Seat of Self is where awareness takes full residence in your body— not overtaken by trauma, not fused with parts, and no longer distorted by ancestral entanglements or energetic interference. This is the space of embodied Individuation—where the Whole Self emerges, distinct from trauma, roles, or inherited patterns, & Sourced from Within. My entire approach is designed to help you build and stabilize this place inside you.

Multidimensional Clearing

You are more than a mind and a body. We work across timelines, ancestral imprints, energetic entanglements, and soul contracts to disentangle you from what’s not yours—so you can fully reclaim your Sovereign Self.

Somatic Resolution

Trauma is not just a memory—it’s stored in the nervous system. I guide you to safely discharge trauma from your body so you stop reliving old patterns and start embodying new ones. This work is felt, not just understood.

Systemic Insight

We look beyond the personal. Your symptoms often make sense within family systems, cultural paradigms, collective fields, and inherited dynamics. This lens helps you exit roles that were never yours and stop perpetuating generational cycles.

Subconscious Reprogramming

We rewire the beliefs and internal narratives that have quietly governed your reality. This is deep neurological and energetic re-patterning that liberates your potential and expands your capacity to receive, lead, and thrive.

The Reclamation Offer Suite

A curated collection of private somatic containers, designed for where you are in your journey—from stabilization to sovereignty.

The Restoration

Somatic Reclamation

What it is: A stabilisation track designed for those in collapse, burnout, or emotional flatness. This is the Somatic Reclamation stage, where we rebuild nervous system safety and create a secure frame for your system to land. It’s also a foundational practice at any stage of healing, supporting ongoing discharge, resilience, and the return of joy and playfulness.
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What we do:
- VaST-informed somatic work to bring reflexes back online and discharge trauma (past or present).
- Relational containment and co-regulation within a secure frame.
- Building inner safety and emotional capacity so your system can hold more of life without overwhelm.
- Gentle brain repatterning as the nervous system learns to expect safety, not survival.
- Supporting capacity for presence, regulation, and emotional resilience.
- Beginning to separate survival strategies (pleaser, achiever, strong one) from Core Identity.
- Reclaiming Essence qualities—joy, playfulness, imagination, creativity—as natural byproducts of discharge.

Good for:
- Collapse, exhaustion, depression, or anxiety
- Ongoing stress or emotional overload that won’t shift with rest alone
- Healing attachment trauma at the groundwork level — building a new relational imprint through co-regulation and secure framing
- Feeling fragmented, “not yourself,” or disconnected from vitality
- Anyone wanting to move from survival to aliveness, whether at the beginning of healing or deeper in the journey
- Early stages of trauma repair where stabilisation is needed    

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The Deep Repair

Trauma-Focused Somatic Therapy

What it is:
This is the Trauma to Essence phase. This is where we go beyond stabilisation and into trauma resolution leading to individuation. Together, we disentangle your psyche from survival strategies, hijacking parts, and systemic forces that have shaped your life, so you can reclaim your Core Self and live from Essence.
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What we do:
- Systemic + multidimensional trauma work (ancestral, field, energetic)
- Inner constellation mapping (Core Self, Parts & Aspects)
- Trauma discharge and nervous system capacity building
- Resolution of deep systemic entanglements, including mother and father wounds
- Repairing attachment ruptures and disentangling from survival roles
- Re-organising your psyche around Core + Essence, as opposed to Trauma-based Identity
- Integration of new inner architecture that allows for clarity, sovereignty, and Essence-led living
- Development of a coherent sense of Self — no longer feeling “penetrated” by the world, as the nervous system heals its raw edges and a natural boundary is restored (for those who are porous - and feel like they absorb everything)

Good for:
- Unresolved trauma → complex or developmental trauma, attachment trauma, or mother/father wounds at the root
- Repeating patterns → in love, money, or leadership that won’t shift despite “doing the work”
- Identity collapse → emptiness, disorientation, dissociation or feeling disconnected even after years of healing
- Individuation → moving beyond groundwork repair (Somatic Reclamation) into Core Self, Essence, and true inner authority
- High-level impact → leaders, high achievers, and creatives ready to reclaim their psyche from survival-driven success and live from Essence

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️ The Upgrade

Subconscious Reprogramming

What it is: Subconscious reprogramming for money, manifestation, and relational blocks. This work identifies and dissolves the hidden beliefs and fears that quietly sabotage your success or limit your reality. Think of it as upgrading your inner software: we rewrite the programs that keep you stuck in survival patterns, so your subconscious is aligned with your true desires.

What it does:
- Clears fears of expansion, success, or visibility
- Dissolves limiting beliefs around money, love, and worth
- Ends sabotage cycles that repeat no matter how hard you try
- Aligns your subconscious with the reality you want to create, so expansion becomes natural

Good for:
- Money and manifestation blocks that feel “stubborn”
- Fear of success, fear of expansion, or fear of being seen
- Subconscious resistance to what you desire, i.e. receiving more, owning your power, wealth etc.
- Those who want to combine trauma repair with quantum-level upgrades

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The Holding (Add-On)

Container

What it is:
A WhatsApp container that extends the secure frame between sessions. It’s not therapy on-demand, but a space where you can reach out between sessions to feel supported, anchored, and guided in real time.

What it provides:
- Ongoing containment for integration and processing
- A safe place to share reflections, questions, or challenges as they arise
- Practical tools, reminders, and guidance to support your nervous system
- Relational consistency beyond the session space, so you don’t feel alone in between

Good for:
- High achievers navigating intense life demands who want steady support
- Clients who process deeply and need touchpoints between sessions
- Those who value having a safe, reliable container to lean into between sessions rather than being left in isolation

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Who This Is (and Isn’t) For

This work is deep, somatic, and soul-led. It requires emotional readiness, financial self-responsibility, and a willingness to meet your inner world with maturity and devotion.

You’re ready for this work if:

  • You’ve already done therapy, coaching, or healing—but know there’s something deeper still driving your patterns
  • You’re willing to go into preverbal trauma, attachment wounds, ancestral entanglements, and nervous system work
  • You’re emotionally aware and self-reflective, but still feel stuck in trauma-driven cycles, unhealthy relational patterns & negative coping mechanisms.
  • You’re ready to take full responsibility for your transformation—not outsource it
  • You are financially stable enough to invest from sovereignty, not survival
  • You’re committed to long-term change, not quick fixes—you know this is not about one session “fixing” everything
  • You desire to lead, love, and live from your True Self—not from fragmented parts or unconscious strategies

This work is not a fit if:

  • You expect someone else to do the work for you
  • You’re in acute crisis, or unable to meet your basic needs (including rent, food, or psychological safety)
  • You’re making this investment from a place of desperation, urgency, or pressure to be “fixed” in one session
  • You are unwilling to meet discomfort, stay curious, or take responsibility for your process
  • You want mindset or strategy coaching without addressing the deeper somatic and trauma layers
  • You’re unwilling to look at the roots—emotional, ancestral, somatic, energetic
  • You’re not ready to meet yourself with honesty, responsibility, and compassion
This work is powerful, precise, and deeply sacred.
It’s for those who are ready to go to the root—and finally come home to themselves.

Testimonials

Hi Handan. Thank you again! I have worked with loads and loads of fellow Thetahealers and was always feeling like they’re not strong enough to go where they need to go during a session. Finally I have found my match with you, so happy!!
Y.S.
Thank you for such a powerful session Handan!! It is amazing – you changed a few programs in MY mind, but our sessions shifted my whole family, especially the kids. The dynamic in our home is completely different.It confirms yet again, that “if you want to change the world, start with yourself”. Grateful!
Anonymous
I went to Handan because I was struggling to get pregnant. During our sessions, Handan helped me release a lot of fears and blockages from the past that were in the way of me getting pregnant. And fast forward a couple of months later, I find out I am pregnant!
Dana S.
A profound experience! Handan has clearly found her purpose and calling on this earth - that sweet spot where her personality has come to serve her soul. Do yourself a favor and make time to delve deep into your subconscious with her to unravel roadblocks that you may not even know are there. Grateful for this experience and the many epiphanies that she helped me reach. The clarity that I walked away with still resides in me, weeks after our session.
Tala
Over the last few years, I had heard of Theta Healing as a powerful and Handan. Handan’s zest for life and positive spirit is infectious and the good thing is she doesn’t impose her own views on you but instead enables us to see our surroundings in a different perspective. This is where the real change begins! Thank you Handan!”
Ziad S
Hello Handan, I want to share with you that after giving healing sessions on my sister and her husband - finally they have been able to conceive 8 years after their marriage. This is a miracle come true for everyone.And I wanted to thank you for making me reach that level .. I do have the trust in ThetaHealing but I believe it’s the teacher who makes you find yourself and empowers you to manifest miracles.. you are truly a blessing for our family.May god always bless you with abundance of unconditional love, health, desires, blessings, prosperity.
Natasha
HanDan, thank you for resolving my trauma’s and emotional issues. Thank you for giving me back my confidence. During all these years I thought that what I was going through was unfixable, that I was born to struggle, to give only and never receive. I was wrong, your sessions helped me understand me, helped me understand that my life is my own creation. Since I started the sessions, training with you last November, I feel happier, stronger, confident, calmer. Thank you for healing my heart and my soul. Thank you for being my beautiful healer.
Bouchra B.

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